Hello!! I am still here! I have neglected this blog for a while now! Time is tight right now. I know many of us are all too familiar with tight budgets. Sometimes, it just doesn’t seem like there is enough to go around. Or we sit around scratching our heads trying to figure out how to make it work. That’s how life has been the past couple of months for us. Since the beginning of summer we have been slammed busy with coffee business work, yard work, broken tractors, waist high weeds…you name it! Some days it feels like there is barely time to breath. Our time is literally budgeted to the max!
The other day, Alex and I were sweating our brains out weeding the garden, which is currently growing cantaloupes and winter squash. Our tractor had a broken part, which took forrrevver to fix, and the weeds got totally out of control. After spending HOURS weeding, cursing crabgrass, and nearly fainting with heat exhaustion we got the garden bed under control. All for some cantaloupes. Sweet, sweet cantaloupes. About midway through I had this crazy thought to myself of “why the heck am I doing this?! This is so much WORK. All this for some cantaloupes?!” Then I yelled some more at the crabgrass. Devil plant. Then I had the realization that this “work” is actually just life. You see, this is the life we have chosen. It’s not to say that this life is for everyone. When I made the realization that this work was really just life, it made doing it not as meaningless. It was more than just weeding a bed of cantaloupes.
Some things that I treasure as a result of our hard work life:
- Our children see things grow from seed to fruit. Lea planted the cantaloupe seeds, and is so proud of the end result. I love that she gets excitement eating things that “came from OUR garden”. Daggone crabgrass weeding is worth it for the kids.
- Life is sweeter. Hard work makes the sweetest things even sweeter. One of my favorite and most enjoyable things to do at the end of a really tough day is to get in the shower and scrub the layers of dirt off of my feet. I know…kinda weird. Most days I do work in my flip flops…so my feet are downright scary. I love using my super scrubby coconut fiber loofa to turn black dirt caked feet into normal feet again. It feels so good.
- I am learning survival skills. I mean, come on…girlfriend needs to know how to grow stuff in the case the world comes to an end. You might thank me someday.
- Our views are a thing of beauty. 5 acres is a lot of land to care for. Most of the time I’m pretty sure we’re crazy. But then the sunsets, the storms, the lightening bugs in the wheat fields…The country life views are so breathtaking and worth the backbreaking it takes to maintain.
- We work together. I don’t often leave Alex home to do the yard work while I take the kids places on the weekend. We work together as a family. Kids get involved, Alex and I trade off. Sometimes we all fight, sometimes we complain together, sometimes we laugh, sometimes at the end of the day we go eat Mexican food and drink margaritas. On days when we do have something planned, we try to get our work done earlier in the week so we don’t have to be apart. It’s just how we roll. Often we have family here too, to help with the kids.
- Kids eat more vegetables when they pick it fresh. I have noticed that my kids will eat green things out of the garden when they wouldn’t otherwise touch it on their plates. Even Elly & Cai, who won’t touch green things with a 10 foot pole, eat cukes and snap peas from the garden. It’s their thing. They just love to go and forage for a cuke. Cai even eats the green tomatoes. Weeding the garden so that they can do this safely (read: make sure theres no places for snakes to live) is a high priority for me. Remind me to plant more cucumber plants next year since the kids eat them all…barely any make it in the house!
So while the rind of life is tough, the inside is sweet and worth every drop of sweat poured. Someday I will write more on the blog about less challenging times, but this is where we are right now.